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The Power of Unfairness: Making unfair choices may seem tempting, but it's crucial to consider the long-term consequences.

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In my previous blog post, I emphasized the importance of using your power of choice to create positive outcomes. However, today I want to delve deeper into the other side of the coin: the power of unfairness. Sometimes we may be tempted to make an unfair decision to benefit ourselves in the short-term, or we may be forced to make an unfair decision by our organization. But regardless of the situation, it's important to consider the long-term repercussions of our choices.

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Ask yourself: why are you choosing to act unfairly? What could the long-term consequences be? Is it worth sacrificing your integrity and reputation for a momentary gain?

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Let's consider some examples. Imagine you're asked to manipulate contractual data to appear compliant. While this may benefit you in the short-term, the long-term effects could be disastrous for both you and your organization. If discovered, you could face legal repercussions and damage to your professional reputation. Your organization could face fines and damage to its reputation as well.

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Similarly, if you're asked to make an employee look bad to protect a toxic manager, consider the impact on the employee's career and mental health. This decision could also harm your own reputation and career prospects in the long-term.

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Gossiping about someone to tarnish their reputation may seem like a way to elevate yourself, but it's a harmful and unfair choice. Not only does it harm the individual's reputation, but it can also lead to a toxic work environment and damage relationships with colleagues.

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As you can see, making unfair choices may provide temporary benefits, but the long-term consequences are often severe. It's essential to consider the impact of our choices on ourselves, others, and our organization.

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Remember, standing in front of your creator on judgment day, you'll be held accountable for your actions. It's crucial to use your power of choice wisely and make fair decisions, even when it's challenging.

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In conclusion, the power of unfairness is real, but it's not one that should be embraced lightly. Let's strive to make fair choices and build a better world for ourselves and those around us.

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