I Want a Divorce.

Four words that detonated my world.

In that moment, everything I thought was solid—my marriage, my home, my family, my identity—collapsed.

It wasn’t just a relationship ending; it was the ground disappearing beneath my feet.

Suddenly I was sleeping on the couch, packing boxes, fighting for time with my children, trying to hold on to a sense of who I was while the system treated me like a stranger.

You think you’ll reason through it, but when fear, anger, and false accusations enter the picture, logic evaporates.

There’s a moment in every man’s separation where you realize: no one is coming to save you.

You have to organize your chaos—because the truth won’t matter if you can’t prove it.

That’s why I built CustodyMate—not as a business, but as a lifeline.

A structured way to track, document, and protect your story when everything else feels uncontrollable.

If you’re in that place right now—feeling lost, silenced, or broken—remember: structure isn’t control.

It’s survival.

🙏 Duʿā (Supplication)

O Allah, grant me patience in trial, strength in weakness, and clarity in confusion. Let truth guide my path and protect those I love.

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